The importance of time

The importance of time

       Time is really a wonderful thing. It can be defined satisfactorily. It has no beginning and no end. All things are born in time, grow in time and then decay and die in time. Time moves at its own pace. It cannot be commanded. It does not wait for kings or princess.It cannot be analyzed

Time is really a wonderful thing. It can be defined satisfactorily. It has no beginning and no end. All things are born in time, grow in time and then decay and die in time. Time moves at its own pace. It cannot be commanded. It does not wait for kings or princess.It cannot be analyzed

          We are conscious of the passing time and its importance. We have developed clocks and watches to indicate its flow. We have invented dates, days and years to indicate and measure it in our own way, but it is really indivisible and immeasurable.

People say time is money. But it is more precious than money. Money lost can be recovered, but not the time lost. A moment lost is lost for ever. Time is ever changing. Change is the law of nature. Nothing is independent of change or time. Man’s life is very short but the work is much and difficult. There are so much to do. Therefore, we should not waste even a single minute. Every breath, every second should be used properly and meaningfully.

   Our school work, home task, hours of rest and sleep, time of recreation and exercise, etc., should be well planned and organized.
We should never postpone doing good and important things. We should never be idle when we ought to be working hard. Leisure is enjoyable only after fruitful hardwork. It is our duty to not to leave any work till tomorrow that can be done today and now.

We should not waste time. Actually, nobody can waste time. It is we who are being wasted by time. Economy is time is very important. Great men and women use their moments most profitably and economically. It is through this method that they have invented great things, discovered wonderful things and left their footprints on the sands of time.

Ask to the person who is suffering from cancer, the importance of "Single Day".

Ask to students the importance of an "Hour"

You can ask any Athlete what is the importance of a single second

He can tell you in better way.

Love Notes

Short, Sweet and Romantic Inspirations for Sharing

Whenever I see, hear or feel something strongly in my heart, I write it down - in little spiral notebooks, on napkins, post-its, anything handy. I've always loved sending love notes too - a word of encouragement, an insight, quote, question, poem or the lyrics of a song - anything that speaks to me with a sense of urgency.In this process, I've discovered that what truly makes me happy is seeking meaning. Over the years I've come to understand that wisdom is ageless and everything is interconnected. Love notes shared brings truth and light to our own experiences. And so this website has become the ideal vehicle for me to preserve these reflections and inspirations - and share them too.
I hope the wisdom from many wise mentors scattered through these pages in whatever form will inspire you to reflect on your life. And please keep the conversation going... I would love to hear your truths and insights too.
In the mean time, live and love bravely.

What's your Love Language?

You wouldn't speak French to a Chinese man or order pizza at a Thai restaurant. Then why do we have so much miscommunication in our relationships? In life, we usually try to please other people as best we can, but often in relationships we love our partner how we want them to love us and not the way they actually need to be loved. This is why it is important for you as a couple to understand the five languages of love.
The truth be told, we all want to be loved - whichever way it might be. However, when receiving the wrong type of love we can often start to feel empty and unwanted. The best way to know if you are giving your partner the right type of love is simply to ask. It might save you a lot of time and effort cooking exotic meals if your partner for instance needs words of affection in order to feel loved.

Miscommunication or lack of it is what causes conflict to arise in intimate relationships. This is why the golden rule in any relationship is to be kind and humble. Another part of the golden rule is to respect your partner and not to judge them based on your own expectations. We are all individuals with different personalities and have gone through life experiencing different aspects of life.

This is where the 5 languages of love come into play. Dr. Gary Chapman is an American marriage counsellor who has described and clarified these differences in a very interesting and useful way. In his book The Five Love Languages, he reveals the theory that there are five key ways of showing love and that every one of us has a preference for what makes us feel most loved. Understanding love languages leads to the ability to communicate with your partner in a non-judgemental way.
Here are the 5 languages of love:
· Quality time: For a person who speaks this language, things like eye contact, deep and meaningful conversations and shared activities are needed to feel loved. Bonding time with their partner is what is most important to them.


· Receiving gifts: When you are with a partner who love little gifts and surprises, this is precisely what you will get. You will constantly be showered with new clothes, flowers or even chocolates. This is how they want to be loved, so this is exactly what they do for their partners. Giving the gift of self is also an important symbol of love to these people.


· Words of affection: This works by giving your partner constant compliments, sweet love notes and lots of encouragement. This is important because those who speak this language are sensitive people and don’t take criticism as well as others. They may illustrate their frustrations by using sharp words or even by harassing you.


· Physical touch: If this is the language of your partner they will be very affectionate or, as some like to call it, touchy-feely. Sex to them means much more than just an orgasm - it is a way to connect. If you deny someone who speaks this love language sex, they may feel unloved.

· Acts of service: Some people find pleasure in doing things for others. This may mean that they will feel loved when their partners help out with chores or doing things for them. However, acts of service should be done out of love, not obligation.

So which of the 5 languages of love do you speak and, just as importantly, which one does your partner speak?

Don't make assumptions here - make sure to ask them directly and talk about the different options. Once your love languages have been established, you need to keep communication lines open on what it means to both of you as individuals and in your relationship.

If you love your partner using the right language, they will be happy and want to love you back. Love is deliciously contagious.

Love Notes Blog

'...because winters flow into spring,
I know love very well.
I dash her with my dreams
ode her with sweet nothing-songs
lyric her into blooms.
Hold her hand in the summer craze
play with her the whole autumn.
She is the starry tint to my laughter
My best and only girl.
I love love and love loves me.
~ From Love by Neiloe Khunyeli

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Always and Forever

"Always and Forever"

Always and forever
Each moment with you
It's just like a dream to me
That somehow came true

And I hope tomorrow
Will still be the same
Cause we got a life of love
That won't ever change

Every day lend me your own special way
Melt all my heart away with a smile
Take time to tell me You really care
And we'll share tomorrow together

There'll always be sunshine
when I look at you
Something I just can't explain
It's the things that you do

If you get lonely
Call me and take
A second to give to me
The magic you make

Every day lend me your own special way
Melt all my heart away with a smile
Take time to tell me You really care
And we'll share tomorrow together

I'll always Love You...Forever

Every day lend me your own special way
Melt all my heart away with a smile
Take time to tell me, You really care
And we'll share tomorrow together

Baby, Baby, Baby
I'll Love You Forever
I'll always Love You Forever
Together
Forever

What is Love?

 

what is love?

  For all you people who say "I love you" when you

  have no clue what love is exactly!!!:

  What is love? When we claim that it's love that we

  have for someone,are we correct? Something to ponder upon.....

  Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is

  your voice caught within your chest?

It isn't love, it's like.

  You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I

  right?It isn't love, it's lust.

  Are you proud, and eager to show them off?

  It isn't love, it's luck.

Do you want them because you know they're there?

  It isn't love, it's loneliness.

  Are you there because it's what everyone wants?

  It isn't love, it's loyalty.

  Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?

  It isn't love, it's low confidence.

  Do you stay for their confessions of love, because

  you don't want to hurt them?It isn't love, it's pity.

  Do you belong to them because their sight makes

  your heart skip a beat? It isn't love, it's infatuation.

  Do you pardon their faults because you care about

  them? It isn't love, it's friendship

Do you tell them every day they are the only one

you think of? It isn't love, it's a lie.

Are you willing to give all of your favorite things

for their sake? It isn't love, it's charity.

Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?

Then it's love.

Do you cry for their pain, even when they're

strong? Then it's love.

Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your

soul so deeply it hurts?Then it's love.

Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible

mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there?

Then it's love.

Do you accept their faults because they're a part

of who they are? Then it's love.

Are you attracted to others, but stay with them

faithfully without regret? Then it's love.

Would you allow them to leave you , not because they

want to but because they have to?

Then its love.

Would you give them your heart, your life, your

death? Then it's love.

Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do

we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this

agony?

Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of

self?

Why? The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is such an

addictive

that even people who are not having it wish to experience and

share it with .

with luv...ur friend

I surrender


There’s so much life I’ve left to live
And this fire’s burning still
When I watch you look at me
I think I could find the will
To stand for every dream
And forsake the solid ground
And give up this fear within
Of what would happen if they ever knew
I’m in love with you

’cause I’d surrender everything
To feel the chance to live again
I reach to you
I know you can feel it to
We’d make it through
A thousand dreams I still believe
I’d make you give them all to me
I’d hold you in my arms and never let go
I surrender

I know I can’t survive
Another night away from you
You’re the reason I go on
And now I need to live the truth
Right now, there’s no better time
From this fear I will break free
And I’ll live again with love
And no the they can’t take that away from me
And they will see...

’cause I’d surrender everything
To feel the chance to live again
I reach to you
I know you can feel it too
We’d make it through
A thousand dreams I still believe
I’d make you give them all to me
I’d hold you in my arms and never let go
I surrender

Every night’s getting longer
And this fire is getting stronger, babe
I’ll swallow my pride and I’ll be alive
Did you hear my call
I surrender all

’cause I’d surrender everything
To feel the chance to live again
I reach to you
I know you can feel it too
We’d make it through
A thousand dreams I still believe
I’d make you give them all to me
I’d hold you in my arms and never let go
I surrender

Right here, right now
I give my life to live again
I’ll break free, take me
My everything I surrender all to you

Right here, right now
I give my life to live again
I break free, take me
My everything I surrender all to you

Key To Success

Key To Success

Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.

                                    ---Lord Buddha